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These blog posts reflect the types of work we do, some of the questions we address, and experiences we’ve had working with individuals and committed couples seeking deeper love, better relationships, and stronger marriages.

Q&A: What if my spouse wants a divorce?

Q&A: What if my spouse wants a divorce?

Question: "I have been with my husband for 4 years, married 3, and we are on the verge of divorce but trying to save our marriage. ... We started having intimacy issues and communication issues 6 months after getting married. … We stopped talking to each other and I...

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Q&A: Conveying disappointment to your partner

Q&A: Conveying disappointment to your partner

Question: "Has anyone mastered the art of expressing a disappointment to your partner when feeling disappointed by them without making it seem like a complaint or making your partner wrong?" B.V. Brenda: Yes! Studies show we need to hear upwards of 10-times more...

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I don’t have time for this!?

I don’t have time for this!?

Want a quick-fix for a marriage that’s now sinking? If we don’t make relationships a priority now, it may be too late to do so when it’s most critical.

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