Q&A: What if my spouse wants a divorce?

Q&A: What if my spouse wants a divorce?

Question: “I have been with my husband for 4 years, married 3, and we are on the verge of divorce but trying to save our marriage. … We started having intimacy issues and communication issues 6 months after getting married. … We stopped talking to each...
Q&A: Conveying disappointment to your partner

Q&A: Conveying disappointment to your partner

Question: “Has anyone mastered the art of expressing a disappointment to your partner when feeling disappointed by them without making it seem like a complaint or making your partner wrong?” B.V. Brenda: Yes! Studies show we need to hear upwards of...
Q&A: Can I ask my spouse to change jobs?

Q&A: Can I ask my spouse to change jobs?

Question: “Is it wrong or selfish of me to ask my husband to try and get another job.? He likes the job he does, but he is working 4 a.m. to 1 p.m. He comes home and goes to sleep around 4 p.m. — or 5 p.m. sometimes. So we don’t get anytime together, and we...